Ever Since Mom Got Sick

Mom looked at my sister and said, “Actually, your brother’s been paying most of the bills.”

My sister stopped mid-sip.

Nobody at the table spoke for a second because Mom almost never interrupted anyone anymore.

Then my sister laughed nervously. “Mom, you’re confused. I handle everything.”

Mom shook her head. “You handle talking about everything.”

That one hit hard enough my uncle slowly lowered his fork.

My sister immediately started talking faster, trying to recover. “I’m the one driving her to appointments and dealing with doctors and insurance—”

“And he’s the one paying the mortgage,” Mom said calmly. “And the electric. And my prescriptions half the time when insurance doesn’t cover them.”

Now everybody was staring at me instead.

I honestly wished she’d left me out of it, but at the same time I was tired. Tired of sitting there while my sister performed exhaustion for an audience like she was the only one keeping Mom alive.

My sister’s face went red. “Why didn’t you say anything?”

I almost laughed at that.

“Because every time I tried, you started crying about how overwhelmed you were.”

Nobody rushed to comfort her this time.

Mom folded her napkin carefully and looked down the table. “My daughter likes attention. My son likes privacy. That doesn’t mean only one of them showed up for me.”

My aunt quietly said, “Well… damn.”

And my sister just sat there gripping her wine glass while relatives suddenly started asking me questions instead of praising her sacrifice.

Dinner felt completely different after that.

For once, my sister wasn’t the narrator of the whole family story anymore.

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